Extended & Custom Support
I'll remember. I'll reach out.
A small ongoing retainer that puts you on Ben’s radar for the dates that matter: the anniversary, the birthday, the holiday that still catches you off guard.
What this is
Support that doesn't wait for you to ask
Grief doesn’t stay on a schedule, and it doesn’t end when the calendar says it should. Extended & Custom Support is a small ongoing retainer built around the dates that are hardest for you. You tell Ben what they are once. When they come around, he reaches out first. You are never the one who has to remember, or the one who has to ask.
How It Works
Your story
Told in your own words, alongside others doing the same.
Priority scheduling.
If a full conversation is needed beyond a check-in, you move to the front of the line.
No fixed end date.
Pause or step away whenever you need to.
Full sessions billed at the standard rate when needed.
The retainer covers outreach and access, not a bank of prepaid sessions.
Proactive outreach on your significant dates.
You provide the list once, Ben tracks it and reaches out around your anniversaries, birthdays, and holidays.
What's Included
- Ongoing retainer access with Ben
- Proactive outreach on your significant dates, tracked and initiated by Ben
- Priority scheduling for any full session beyond outreach
- Full sessions billed at the standard single-session rate when needed
- No renewal paperwork, cancel or pause anytime
You are guided by a mentor who has personally walked through profound loss and understands exactly what it takes to find your footing again
Testimonials
Questions you might have
Do I need to finish the 8-Session Journey first?
No. Many men move into Extended Support after completing the full journey, but it’s also available on its own for men who know upfront they want ongoing, long-term support rather than a defined program.
How is this billed?
A small monthly retainer covers proactive outreach and priority access. If you need a full session, that’s billed separately at the standard single-session rate, the retainer itself isn’t a block of prepaid sessions.
What if I only need this for a season, not forever?
That’s fine. There’s no fixed end date and no penalty for stepping away when you’re ready.
What's the difference between this and therapy?
Therapy is clinical and diagnosis-driven. Mentoring is relational, it’s walking alongside you with honesty, faith, and lived experience, not a treatment plan. Still Here isn’t a replacement for licensed therapy, but for many people it’s exactly the kind of support traditional therapy doesn’t offer.
How long does the support last?
It depends on the path you choose. One-on-one mentoring runs eight sessions. The Table meets ongoing. You’re never locked into more than you’re ready for.
How much does it cost?
Let's talk, no pressure.
15 minutes. No agenda, no forms to fill out, just a conversation about where you’re at.
No commitment, just a conversation