Online Courses
Grief support you can start tonight
Guided, self-paced courses for the seasons of grief that are hardest to walk through alone. Video teaching, Scripture, and real reflection, built around one truth: you don’t have to have it figured out to start.
How These Work
Self-paced. Not alone.
Every Still Here course is built the same way a mentoring session would be, just at your own pace. Short video teaching from Ben, honest and unscripted. A workbook to slow you down and help you actually process instead of just consume. Scripture woven through, not tacked on. You move through it whenever you need it, at 11pm on a Tuesday or during a lunch break, and you can come back to any part of it as many times as you need.
This isn’t information about grief. It’s a guided walk through it.
Explore our Courses
Start where you are. There is no wrong door.
When the Holidays Hurt
$99 (est.)
The holidays don’t pause for grief. They arrive on schedule, full of traditions that now feel different, and a kind of forced cheer that can make loss feel even more isolating. This course walks through the specific weight of grieving during Thanksgiving, Christmas, and the new year, and offers honest, practical ways to move through the season without pretending you’re fine.
- No Agenda
- Everyone Welcome
- Your Pace
- Faith Optional
Ministry Leaders
$179
Seminary doesn’t teach this. This course gives church leaders a practical, Christ-centered framework for walking with grieving members of their congregation, what to say, what not to say, and how to build a church that doesn’t quietly fail its grieving people.
- No Agenda
- Everyone Welcome
- Your Pace
- Faith Optional
Losing a Spouse
$149 (est.)
Losing a spouse rewrites everything: your home, your routines, your sense of who you are. This course walks through the specific grief of losing a partner, and what it looks like to rebuild without erasing what you shared.
- No Agenda
- Everyone Welcome
- Your Pace
- Faith Optional
Losing a Parent
$129 (est.)
Losing a parent changes your place in the world, even as an adult. This course addresses the grief that people expect you to move through quickly, and gives you permission to actually feel it.
- No Agenda
- Everyone Welcome
- Your Pace
- Faith Optional
Grieving a Child
$149 (est.)
There is no framework that makes sense of this loss. This course doesn’t try to. It walks alongside grieving parents with honesty, faith, and space for a grief that doesn’t resolve on anyone else’s timeline.
- No Agenda
- Everyone Welcome
- Your Pace
- Faith Optional
Grief Care for Pastors
$179 (est.)
Pastors bury the dead, sit with the dying, and comfort the grieving, often while grieving something themselves. This course is built specifically for the pastor who hasn’t had space to process their own losses.
- No Agenda
- Everyone Welcome
- Your Pace
- Faith Optional
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Want to go further?
Every course can be paired with a one-on-one call with Ben. If a course opens something up that you want to talk through with a real person, this is the bridge.
Course + 1 Call with Ben
One 30-min private call with Ben, added to any course.
Taught by someone who has actually walked through this
Ben Hellendoorn is a Certified Grief Mentor and Life Coach who built Still Here out of his own losses, not a textbook. Every course comes from years of walking alongside grieving men and women, not a curriculum written from a distance.
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Questions you might have
Do I get lifetime access?
Yes. Once you enroll, the course is yours to revisit whenever you need it, no expiration.
Can I go at my own pace?
Completely. There’s no schedule to keep up with. Some people move through a course in one sitting, others take it a session a week. Both are right.
What if I want to add a call with Ben later?
You can add a call anytime after enrolling, not just at checkout. Just reach out and we’ll get it scheduled.
Is there a guarantee?
If a course isn’t right for you, reach out within 14 days and we’ll make it right.
What's the difference between a course and one-on-one mentoring?
A course is guided but self-paced, you move through it on your own. Mentoring is a real relationship, eight sessions walking through your specific story with Ben directly. Many people start with a course and move into mentoring when they’re ready for that deeper walk.
Let's talk, no pressure.
15 minutes. No agenda, no forms to fill out, just a conversation about where you’re at.
No commitment, just a conversation